Them'it Will Do

CONTEXT: I started this post on Instagram, but I will flesh it out here.

Apparently this app isn't for reading things anymore⁠—if it ever was⁠. Now the expectation is just to look and/or to show, not to say. Oh well!

I'm fairly sure this [IG] is the only social platform with infrastructure that prevents you from seeing or witnessing what you actually sign up for. You do not see even half the people you follow on here even though you are explicitly declaring through your online behavior that such people in your feed are desired.

This pettygation (pettiness + segregation) creates isolation and depression in those who don't have a strong sense of community or support where they're at physically. This, in turn, paints one's perception of how the world is at large. We begin to believe that we (all must) live in a place that is isolating, depressing and lonely "by nature."

Simply because the Imaginal Colonial Complex (Cc: Dreamscapes Academy) of nihilism and of YT cis hetty p* chooses to be this way. Just because there are people who prefer to remain in the dregs of (their) Existence doesn't mean dregs is all Existence itself is REQUIRING/needing from everybody. We are each responsible for our own complexity.

The things people accept as necessary are the things they help perpetuate. There's no actual rulebook regardless of how humanity chooses to organize itself around things-as-concepts. We are each deciding for ourselves what things are, why they are, how they are & when we'll cease to engage with them of our own accord. If we ever do.

There was a time I would talk/write about a lot of the bad news going on in a way that centered the bad news. But (this) bad news isn't new. It's commonplace. It's everywhere and seemingly anywhere at always. For a long time people have just accepted getting away with whatever they could get away with. For generations and generations of conditioning we have learned to tolerate/expect/perpetuate the negation of others and ourselves.

We do this by denying what is already there. We do this when we don’t acknowledge what Existence has made possible to be acknowledged. We do this when we agree to deny the reality of all things through Existence belonging to themselves. Not just figuratively, but ULTIMATELY. In that we each belong to Existence and to ourself and then to whatever else is going on after and through that experience.

I don't encourage hiding from all that is (also) happening. We do not need to deny what is there to be witnessed and we do not need to negate how what we don’t prefer can still help us with a sense of direction and perspective. If there aren't living examples (people existing) of other ways of being and perceiving than the "bad news ways of being," then how do we resign ourselves from the self-fulfilling prophecies that humanity continues to play out and play out?

We are the society that is existing and deciding what manners, degrees, behaviors and beliefs construct how things are. We are the influences over the realities that we labor in the belief(s) of. There are infinitely intersecting takes on how things are, how things “ought to be,” how things “have to be.”

We are all deciding what of all of that we allow to shape the realities we perceive and agree to construct, uphold or perpetuate individually and collectively. I mean that multidimensionally, not just linearly. These things do not just happen “one after the other.” They happen all at once, little by little, on an ongoing and perpetual basis.

“The Order” is simply the nature of the agreements we make. We are not beholden or required to make agreements from negative, negating, limiting, denying and restricting beliefs . . . but we do. We are conditioned to, yes. And, also, by agreeing to our conditioning when refusing to recognize and exercise other ways or methods of being, we condition ourselves.

Nihilism and YT cis hetty p. want you to believe that there are no other way(s) and no other truth(s) BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEM’it* BELIEVE ABOUT EXISTENCE. But them’it are also willfully ignorant. People that acknowledge what is there to deny what is there? People who utilize what exists to deny what exists? To take them at their word is to agree to be in denial with them, which is their intent.

Them’it are willfully ignorant. They don’t want to know WHAT THERE IS TO KNOW and what is there to be known. The more people participate in the illusion of not being able to know what is—without experiencing devastation, denial and suffering as the “ultimately reality” or “truest true;” the easier it is for them’it to justify the perpetuation of their own self denial and self limitation that creates the systems that help sustain and perpetuate their ignorances.

Them/they are ignorant, but It/that is willful. Like, it be your own will of being. At least, that is what you are responsible for. You belong to yourself. You are responsible for what you believe you must participate in because you are responsible for how you believe life is. You are life. And so is everything else. Reconciling and reasoning with that is what you decide things are for yourself as well as where your existence ends up.

Of course, those circumstances will always change. So resistance to the nature/naturalness of change, variation, difference, movement, ongoing development . . . will not stop Existence from persisting in those ways.

There is a way to be with Existence as it is to itself. I’m learning it involves a great deal of allowing things to be what they are and how they are to themselves while simultaneously using that to decide what and how things are for you based on what you would prefer FOR YOURSELF. You lead by example, but that being an example is not the point.

The point is being yourself in a way that allows you to BE WITH YOU. Present and at peace with you in your awareness of everything else. With little if any residual concerns that you don’t trust can be resolved through where you are and how you are AND THAT YOU ARE.

Math is material. Science in substance. Material and substance is elemental and alchemical. They create a highly conductive magix of (the) self. Some might call it the Science of the Self. Science and magix are not mutually exclusive. Everything that is seemingly opposite must share a line, a position of perception of what is declared opposite from it. Or else there would be nothing to declare opposite.

By being what we are and allowing others to be what they are, we take up the space already and infinitely allotted to us by Existence. We acknowledge that Existence is ALL THAT IS and still manages to perpetuate itself into infinity. That everything that exists inherits eternity. And that the infinite and eternal can never be full and yet are never lacking.

We make ourselves at home in the realms of the infinite eternal reality of being what is forever and ever.

And that and we are just a taste of all that Existence is to itself.

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* Nihilism: Using Existence to declare Existence is meaningless and thereby finding a meaning for, through and from Existence regardless

* YT: “White,” Whitelandia, you thought, Whitey!, White Supremacist Delusion, Supremacy Ideation, Anti-Blackness, Racism

* Cis: Cisgender. Cissy. Cishet. Identifying through the gender you were assigned at birth (but often not acknowledging it as a construct and assignment)

* Hetty: Heterosexual. Heteronormative, two-dimensional grandstander, binary believer, genitalia obsessed

* p.: Patriarchy. “Masculinity".” “Manhood,” Capitalism, Misogynoir, Misogyny, OG genitalia obsessed (OGgo)

* Them’it: The chosen behavior of the individual as well as the systems that behavior upholds, helps perpetuate and allows to become systemic.